"Fathers Linked to Healthy Families" ...

June 18, 2006 / by Ancient1


Headlines such as the one above this post should be relegated to the "Mr. Obvious" files. What cadre of nescient dolts does not already know that fathers are essential to healthy families, and who among us would waste good money on a study to affirm that which is so abundantly clear?

Alas, certain enlightened folks out there insist that holding the institution of fatherhood in high esteem is tantamount to misogyny. In fact, many liberals have, for the past four decades, insisted that mothers can do it all. One of the high priestesses of the so-called women's movement, Gloria Steinem, once declared, "A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle." And last fall, uber leftist Feminista Maureen Dowd published a book entitled, "Are Men Necessary?" which has become the manifesto of the man-hating movement.

Worse yet, academicians are spending large sums of your tax dollars to research this very question, despite the plethora of family research indicating that children raised in homes with their biological fathers have a much higher chance of succeeding in life. Unfortunately, some 25 million American children live absent or apart from their biological fathers. One in three children—and only one in five inner-city children—are in homes with their fathers.

Of course, many moms have no choice but to do it all. This is because many biological fathers have abdicated their responsibility for proper love, discipline, teaching, support, moral guidance and protection of their family. (Memo to divorced dads and assorted victims of feminist rage and unfair family courts: Please hold your comments — I know that women file almost 70 percent of divorces, most without any claim of abandonment, infidelity or abuse.)


The disastrous social consequences of this abdication are clearly evident and well documented. Though many single moms do manage to bring up relatively well-adjusted kids with the help of extended families, churches and schools, the correlation between social deviancy and fatherless homes is irrefutably linked.

"The lack of effective, functioning fathers is the root cause of America's social, economic and spiritual crises," writes Dr. Edwin Cole.

To wit, the truth—and it is a hard truth for men who have abandoned their families, but a harder truth for their children: According to the CDC, DoJ, DHHS and the Bureau of the Census, the 30 percent of children who live apart from their fathers will account for 63 percent of teen suicides, 70 percent of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71 percent of high-school dropouts, 75 percent of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80 percent of rapists, 85 percent of youths in prison, and 85 percent of children who exhibit behavioral disorders. In addition, 90 percent of homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. In fact, children born to unwed mothers are 10 times more likely to live in poverty as children with fathers in the home.

"[The causal link between fatherless children and crime] is so strong that controlling for family configuration erases the relationship between race and crime and between low income and crime," notes social researcher Barbara Dafoe Whitehead. David Blankenhorn, president of the Institute for American Values, adds, "[The absence of fathers] from family life is surely the most socially consequential family trend of our era."



So, fathers do matter—as if that were a recent revelation. In 295 BC, Mencius wrote, "The root of the kingdom is in the state. The root of the state is in the family. The root of the family is in the person of its head."

Of course, the traditional family model is clearly ordained by God as evidenced throughout the Old and New Testaments. In fact, every major religion in the world recognizes an identical family order.

Tragically, the pages of history—especially 20th-century history—are rife with the terrible misdeeds of those who were raised without fathers, or with abusive fathers: Adolf Hitler, Joseph Stalin, Mao Zedong, Saddam Hussein, Osama bin Laden and many others of lesser infamy.

Never let it be said, however, that the Left allows the facts to get in the way of its agenda. Indeed, a strong case can be made that liberal social policies are directly responsible for generations of fatherless children—particularly black children. And Democrats, as I have noted many times previously, have a vested interest in keeping blacks and other "victimized" constituencies dependent on the state.

11 comments on "Fathers Linked to Healthy Families" ...

  • subversives said 2 years ago
    agrred I would submit that mothers are just as essential. Children need to learn about both sexes at home and how they behave in relationship
  • AngryRepublican said 2 years ago
    I agree. Fathers are very important. Also I agree that many of the liberal beliefs and programs either directly, or indirectly hurt the family unit.
  • Percivel said 2 years ago
    "In fact, many liberals have, for the past four decades, insisted that mothers can do it all. " LOL!

    Surely you can stoop lower than this in orde to denigrate the dreaded "liberals."

    Of course women can do it all. So can men. The problem isn't the ability to do something. The problem that neither sex can do it ALL WELL!

    A male does not usually model femininity well, and a female does not usually model masculinity well, and there is the rub. Never thought of it as a political issue though.
  • theinvestigator said 2 years ago
    Truly Percivel it is you that is stooping low by attempting to take the statement out of the context of the entire paragraph.

    If you can find the nerve to read it again... and maybe the whole post for a change ... you may feel compelled to apologize. I'm sure A1 will be understanding and accept it.
  • retiredthoughts said 2 years ago
    I am experiencing this now with a grand daughter (16 years old) who had my great grand daughter without being married, then left the father (who was just a kid himself) because he just wanted to party. It is very upsetting, but I am proud that she at least is trying to turn her life around and take care of and raise her daughter. Such a sad state of affairs, when babies have babies.
  • retiredthoughts said 2 years ago
    what you say is true, yet even you would probably agree that current policies of our republican leaders are not helping the family unit. Yes, grandstanding about Gay marriage and such make headlines, but it would be nice to have a government that really cared for and helped families.
  • Percivel said 2 years ago
    ''... you may feel compelled to apologize"

    Has hell frozen over yet? If it has, I may consider an apology to the pomposity that blames everything he sees being negative on liberals. Not some liberals but all liberals.
  • Ancient1 said 2 years ago
    I do appreciate theinvestigator's effort, but the old sourpuss can't even bring himself to say, or keyboard, the word apologize... he had to resort to a cut-and-paste.

  • Percivel said 2 years ago
    "That's generally a liberal statement"

    No it is not. I have never heard a liberal of any kind say "that single-parent families are just as good as whole ones." I have heard people say that a single parent family is better than a no parent family, but never that a single parent family is as good as a two parent family.

    These are the generalizations that make up the rhetoric BS that the talking heads of both political parties use. You have purchased a package that you can't prove.

    By the way, I have no problem admitting when I am wrong. I am not wrong in this case and you will not see anything even close to an apology.
  • Ancient1 said 2 years ago
    "Beginning in the 1960s, liberalism, once the home of many deep thinkers, began to substitute feeling for thought and descended into superficiality. One-word put-downs of opponents' ideas and motives were substituted for thoughtful rebuttal. Though liberals regard themselves as intellectual—their views, after all, are those of nearly all university professors—liberal thought has almost died. Instead of feeling the need to thoughtfully consider an idea, most liberal minds today work on automatic. One-word reactions to most issues are the liberal norm... Here is a list of terms liberals apply to virtually every idea or action with which they differ: Racist, Sexist, Homophobic, Islamophobic, Imperialist, Bigoted, Intolerant. And here is the list of one-word descriptions of what liberals are for: Peace, Fairness, Tolerance, The poor, The disenfranchised, The environment. These two lists serve contemporary liberals in at least three ways. First, they attack the motives of non-liberals and thereby morally dismiss the non-liberal person. Second, these words make it easy to be a liberal—essentially all one needs to do is to memorize this brief list and apply the right term to any idea or policy... Third, they make the liberal feel good about himself—by opposing conservative ideas and policies, he is automatically opposing racism, bigotry, imperialism, etc. Examples could fill a book." —Dennis Prager
  • Percivel said 2 years ago
    "Then your experience differs from mine. I've heard it all the time, usually in defense of divorce, kicking a father out of a child's life, or because people think a woman can do it all on her own just as well. If you've never heard it, then I can only hope there are only an insignificant number of people who think that way."

    I hope so too, but your generalization makes the assertion that liberals think that way and does not consider that it might only be a minority if any think that way at all.

    I personallly think that there are men who are not good parents and some who might not make good parents in the future. However, I also think that there are some woment who are not good parents and that some might not make good parents in the future.

    Sometimes there are situations where one parent is better than two. There are also times when no parent is better than either one or two parents. What ever the causality, most of the time two parents; a man and a women, make the best possible situation for most children.

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